Risk It Again???

[Kiky]

Um--Can I get some help on this one?
Here's my little craptacular problem: I met this guy through a friend last January. He ASKED me to "be something more" to him after talking on the phone for about a month. I thought I was his gf in the beginning, but because of his "attitude" towards me( he was just a horny SOB), I realized I wasn't (thank goodness I never slept with him!), but we decided to be friends still. Still hung out with him, until I decided I didn't want to see him anymore.<<<All of this took place LAST YEAR.

Fast forward... :p

I haven't seen him since last year. We DO keep in touch (occasionally) through IM. Sad part about this is, I have feelings for him (always did), yet I mask them because of what happened between us before. Mind you all, I have a hunch that he likes me, but I dunno exaclty how--if it's real or he's just suffering from blue balls.

I told what I wanted before, yet he still talks to me (and I sadly, to him). What should I do? State my true feelings (again) or just let it go?

FYI: He's 21 and I'm 20.

[Tuxgal]

Hello and welcome. :) Well, I think the best thing to do is just be honest and straightforward with him. Tell him that you do like him but your not just looking for sex. Let him know that if he's just looking to hookup to look elsewhere. But if he's interested in a real relationship you'd like to try it. :) Good luck. Hope it goes well.

[Tuxie]

Hiya Kiki and welcome :)

Well, if you want to 'move on' you're gonna hafta confront him about what you are feeling. I agree with Tuxgal, you need to be upfront and honest with him. Just tell him how you feel... everything. Let him know what the bottom line is... that you want to know what he wants (relationship or no). Hope this helps.

Heh @ horny SOB. I understand completely... ;) @ tuxgal.

Hey Kiki... what in the world is your avatar?! I keep looking at it, scratching my head. I can't figure it out. :confused:

[Kiky]

Lol, it's some sort of rose.....:p

[Kiky]

BTW--you guys have the CUTEST avatars!:)

[smackie9]

From my experience, there are some guys that are only interested in sex and not a relationship. I think he knows how you feel about him, so I think it would be a waste of time saying anything. I would just move on to someone who's more real.:)

[Tuxie]

BTW--you guys have the CUTEST avatars!:)
Thanks, we like them. :) We've had this theme since this other forum we were both on together, and it's followed us over to this great place. ;)

Ohhhh, yeah... now I see the rose!! :cool: