Hypocrites

[sweet26]

Ive been dating a guy for about 8 months. I know what i need to do about the relationship, end it, but my thing is, hes a hypocrite. He hides things from me, which ive stated before, but now ive found out hes signed up for a cam site to view other people (nude) on cam, he has girls on his myspace that he has potentially slept with (which he says he doesnt) he changes his comp passwords all the time after he tells them to me, he comes here on the weekend and he just sits here and then gets mad because i have nothing to say becauses hes knee deep in his computer from the time he arrives to the time he leaves. Hes always worried that im not happy, and not to mention of all the retardedness tries to put words in my mouth, and the other day for example, at work, i told him i had to use the bathroom, to enjoy the work he was into and going to do, two and a half days later he asks me how i knew the work he was about to do, as if i wasnt really using the bathroom, and i was lying to skip having break with him. I know i know, i need to end it, and i think the reason im still in this is that im trying to prove him wrong with all the negative bull crap that he throws out. Im trying to clear my name of all the crap that he says that i do or thinks i do, and i dont do anything. Is there a way i can just confront him about all this, (hes the time i mind you, that will twist and turn things around change words to make you lose your train of thought and not to mention he will drag up the most sily things to make you think youve done something, in other words hes very manipulative.)
Id really like to break him down with all this, im tired of him being like this and treating me like this,a nd id like tof ind a way to finally stand up for myself.
Thanks a lot.

[**Sapphire**]

Honestly sweet, the best thing to do is to get rid of him, leave him hun. The way he is sweet, he won't change & there is no way of you trying to get around him to make him see what he is doing.

The only thing that will happen is more & more arguments, more & more of you being put in situations that you don't want to be in & being angry all the time. He's not going to see what he is, so you need to get out & let him stew in the way he is.

Karma has a way of coming back to get people when they least expect it, he will get his in the end for being the way he is. Don't continue in this relationship because you think that you might be able to 1 up him & make him see how he is, honestly hun, the only 1 that will come out badly is you. I don't want to see you come out badly.

I've been in a relationship very similar to yours & nothing good comes from trying to make the other see what he's doing.

[~Teej~]

Two words Sweet hun................END IT.............You don't need to stay with someone like this.......:(

[sweet26]

Its a shame that ive put so much into something only to be told that i dont do enough. How much does a person have to endure, i keep asking myself that. How much more do i have to endure?
I was ignored in both my previous marriages, and now im being ignored again. And its even coming down to its visible that he doesnt get "excited" when im around, in the bedroom. This has happened 3 times now, he just loses it and then gets angry if i ask if its me. He says its not me, its him, must be his diet or the way hes masturbating. But seriously, how can someone go 7 1/2 months with no problems, to all of the sudden? 3 times now he just loses it? I just dont know. I just need to walk away.

[**Sapphire**]

Yes you really do just need to walk away hun.

All that he is doing now is part of his manipulative ways. He's not going to change, it's only going to get worse & your going to be the one that will be hurt all the time from him.

[TreeofSephri]

Leave him and let him worry about whether you were being truthful or not.

[devilwoman]

I know its not easy to give up when you've put so much into a relationship but you really can only do the one thing now and leave him hun. If you don't and let things carry on they'll only get worse as he'll see it as you allowing him to treat you like this.

[~Teej~]

I do worry about you sweet hun..you need to get out of this relationship as it is destroying you