what are we?

[babylove621]

ok i need some advice because i'm sort of confused. ok me and this guy have been dating since january, everything has been really good since we worked everything out but i still can't decide if were exactly boyfriend and girlfriend yet, i don't think he does either, he tells me he loves me and misses me all the time, and if you ask him if hes single he says no. half the time he treats me like his girlfriend and the other times its the total opposite. i feel weird everytime someone asks if hes my boyfriend especially after the amount of months. any ideas?

[**Sapphire**]

The best advice that I can give you babylove is to ask him about the status of your relationship with him. I'm thinking you both may need to talk about it & get any kind of confusion out in the open.

To me, from what you wrote it sounds like he does consider you his girlfriend, so that is a plus. :)

[daisychip]

When you feel like he's NOT treating you as his gf, what are you missing? I mean what is it that he's not doing to make you feel it? Let him know and get the ball rolling so you both can figure out whats up. Good Luck.

[mashmac]

if he says he isn't single - it means you are the other woman. it doesn't mean he doesn't care about you, it means he feels there is someone else there he is responsible for. a primary relationship. and those situation usually don't end well. are you ok with being the other woman? no matter what happens?
very strange that after all this time you still don't know for sure there is someone else.
you have to ask.

[aussiecoffee007]

i would ask too just to be completley sure... plus if you guys ARE in a relationship you should be able to talk about this stuff! :)

[Mixed]

he tells you he loves you and misses you? and he says he isn't single?

how does he not treat you like a gf?

its a bit confusing as he seems to act mot of the time like you're his girlfriend.

just go up to him and ask him. everyone needs to talk about that :)

[~Teej~]

Maybe he is just waiting for you to bring up the subject...Maybe he is just as nervous as you are...I say ask him and see what he is says....That is the only way you are going to know for sure :) Good luck

[romantico26]

Go on and ask him...what is the worst that can happen, u are in a relationship you have to talk about almost everything, why not try to talk about this...good luck

[Beautiful Mystique]

Did you mean he said is not single when other people ask him in front of you or when you asked him that?

The best is to talk to him about exclusivity. I know at a certain age, you just go with the flow or "know" you're together by the actions both are showing but still asking is the best way to find out.