i need advice what sould i do

[jgeovanny]

hi guys i am new in to this forum... i hope i can get some advice from you. there is a girl that i like at college i see her twice a week we've been going to the same class sin the begining of the semester but i recently have strated talking to her. i really like this girl, and i think that she like me too. last thursday, we went together to a pizzeria and we were talking and we had a great time, but i never told her that i like her. the thing is that the semster is gonna be over soon and after that i don't know if i am going to see her again. i am a bit shy and i don't know if i should tell her that i have feellings for her or not. do you think that if i tell her that she is going to think that i a going to fast. i already told you guys that i am shy so i was thinking if i should write her a poem and let her know by writing (i am going to be right there[in class] when she reads the poem) or i should tell her directly?? what do you think i should do? some comments would be realy apreciated tanks

[Tuxie]

Welcome to ATLF jgeovanny.

One thing about it, you need to act fast.

I've always felt that the best way to tell someone you like them is in person. But, I realize that you are a bit shy. The point here, is that no matter how you do it, you need to do it. She needs to know now, before it's too late. At this point, who cares if she thinks you're moving too fast... especially if you're never gonna see her again?! Let us know how it goes.

[tbartolo]

hi guys i am new in to this forum... i hope i can get some advice from you. there is a girl that i like at college i see her twice a week we've been going to the same class sin the begining of the semester but i recently have strated talking to her. i really like this girl, and i think that she like me too. last thursday, we went together to a pizzeria and we were talking and we had a great time, but i never told her that i like her. the thing is that the semster is gonna be over soon and after that i don't know if i am going to see her again. i am a bit shy and i don't know if i should tell her that i have feellings for her or not. do you think that if i tell her that she is going to think that i a going to fast. i already told you guys that i am shy so i was thinking if i should write her a poem and let her know by writing (i am going to be right there[in class] when she reads the poem) or i should tell her directly?? what do you think i should do? some comments would be realy apreciated tanks




hi...
i think you're problem it's the problem of the majority...we are always thinking if i shoul tell her or not...

I had already this problem...and you some help of my friends it finished the best way it could finished...

I think if you think that she likes you, you should talk directly to her, and tell her with a smooth way that you get in love with her...and you really like her....

but my worst problem was her answer...

i had to be prepared for a " but i don't like you"...

but if i don't ask her..probably i never known her answer...

so..summarizing...i think you should talk to her and you should be prepared to any answer...

if she doesn't like you like you like her...keep fithing!

bye! and i hope it helps!;)

[demonica75]

hi,
i think life is too short and you should tell about your feelings asap, since you might not see her so often this might be your last chance. don't worry if she doesn't feel the same way, because if you don't tell her at all you will never know and it will drive you crazy. maybe you should ask her for coffee or pizza, or movies and talk about your feelings. make her feel comfortable, no pressure, and feel strong and confident, you will feel good about yourself after you express yourself, no matter what the outcome is.
good luck from the bottom of my heart.
let me know what happens.

[audreycsmith]

I tend to get carried away with my responses, so I need to learn to make my responses short, but yet, to the point: So here goes:

Get over the shyness, tell her how you feel about her (vocally), and don't blow it for future relationships with women, if and when she tells you that it will not work out. bfn: audreycsmith@verizon.net