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SallySalle
02-25-2008, 04:01 AM
So I've been talking to this guy for a little over two months now. We were introduced by my mother. We're very similar. We talk every day sometimes more than once. We get together at least once a week. Neither of us is "talking" to anyone else. We're not having sex, although we do fool around a little. The other night I spent the night at his house. And we'd both like to do it again. Are we moving too fast? Have we not known each other long enough to be "sleeping" together? I really like him and I know that I wouldn't be talking to him if he wasn't up to my standards(moral and ethics wise) so I don't see anything wrong with it. What do you guys think??

aussiecoffee007
02-25-2008, 04:34 AM
two months... well if youre not having sex and you are just spending soem quality time together as you spend the night, i dont think its necessarily wrong... it kinda more depends on how you feel abotu the situation and how you feel about each other. are you on the same page with your relationship? what do you both want from your relationship?

Tony
02-25-2008, 04:36 AM
Sally you have said that you and him are talking you have introduced him to your Mother
you are together at least once a week you have not said that you are bf or gf....

I assume that you are so my answer to you would be if you are comfortable fooling around with him without full on sex by all means go with what you are both happy with.

If you both would like to share that intimacy again I don't think it is to soon.

If you are both want more and you feel you are ready for more with your relationship
I don't think that is to soon provided that is what you both agree upon that decision.

**Sapphire**
02-25-2008, 11:58 AM
I have to agree with Tony, if you feel that you want to take your relationship to the next level of being intimate then I would say go for it.

Have you 2 talked about being exclusive, meaning having a boyfriend, girlfriend relationship?

Pink
02-25-2008, 03:17 PM
I don't think it's too soon, but you just have to go with what you're comfortable with. If you guys are feelin' each other then I'd say go for it. Obviously don't rush into anything, but it seems like you guys are having a good time so far.

~Teej~
02-25-2008, 04:49 PM
I don't think there is anything wrong with it at all...As long as you are both ready and happy with the way things are going then why not ;)