wtf?

[Elphaba]

I have never really had healthy relationships with anyone. I broke up with the 'love of my life' a couple months ago. We were together 2 1/2 years but I knew it was dead. Since then its been hard but i honestly am over him. I started dating someone from my past shortly after and I fell for him hard. He was always my rebound and I always was his but this time I started to really like him. Being the extremely straight forward person I am, I told him that I really liked him and that eventually I'd want this to go somewhere. He told me he felt the same way. Shortly after he confessed to me that he still didnt know how he felt about his ex. That was the end of us speaking because I am a kick a$$ girl and I can't deal with "I don't knows". But part of me still really likes him. He told me recently he is over her and all but I really can't see how I can believe that. I don't trust easily and how should I know it's not a load of crap? well I don't know any of you but if you have any advice I'd love to hear... thanks!

[Tuxgal]

Hmm...hard one. First let me welcome you to the Forum. We're glad you could join us. As for your problem, well....actions speak louder than words. I know sometimes it can be hard to trust, but you may hafta take a chance. Relationships are risky at times, but if you really like him, it may be worth it to take that chance. You never know 'till you try, right? :) Good luck. I hope it works out for you.

[demonica75]

hi,
i say give him another shot, but keep your eyes open to make sure he is not playing you around. he really needs to show you by his actions that he truly wants to belong only to your heart and nobody else but you has a place in his heart. the time will show. good luck.

[lisa843]

I agree with tuxgal...you have to open yourself up and try to trust. If you don't , you will not be able to have a good relationship without trust (IMO) and you may miss out on a great relationship??? I would trust...unless he gives you reason not to trust him. Love is taking a risk...but hoping for the best. Best of luck. take care. :)

[tweety]

uhmm, you must give it a try! Do trust him unless he gives you a reason not to. Relationships start with trust.... all the best!!