I Thank God That I found You Guyz please help me !!

[Josh]

Hello
I wish that you can help me guys
me and my girlfriend are together more than 2.5 years!!
in the biggening everything was goood and we loved each other
but in the last month or two , i dont feel the love anymore i feel like
i need space the love gone!!!
and we dont talk like the way we used to talk to each other

we still together but i dont know if to break up or not to.
i dont know if this is a step that we have to live with or no

i need your help please that thing is driving me crazy

Josh

[Tony]

Hi Josh :hello:
welcome to the ATLF :)

would you think having a talk to her about your relationship would help ?

If you have fallen out of love with this girl I think you need to talk to her as its not fair leading her on with false hope.

for a relationship to work there has to be love on both sides

[lilcupid]

Hey Josh..welcome to ATLF :)
have you thought about taking some time away from one another so you can sort out how you really feel? Sometimes time apart can either tell you that you miss the other person and do love them or that it is time to break up and move on.
Also, how often do you see each other? If you both aren't allow yourselves "me time" that can also make you feel like this

[aussiecoffee007]

if you thikn its worth it to try to fix it, i would have a talk with your girlfriend and tell her that you feel distant from her and like things are the way they used to be, because that will open up communication right there and you guys can eb talking about real stuff again. after that, maybe try some new things with her... after 2 and a half years it can get pretty stale, so try some new things.

[Josh]

well we see each other almost everyday in college or school i dont know what you call it
and i dont know whats happening to my life im feeling so bad i dont know y ... i really love her and i asked her to be my Gf but all these feelings came before month or two !!
I dont know what to do

[lilcupid]

You have nothing to feel bad about Josh. Sometimes feelings do change and sometimes when we see someone all the time, like Aussie said, things can become a bit stale. What you need to sort out is if you want to keep seeing her or if you need to break up. talk with her. Tell her how you are feeling. She may be feeling the same! At least then you both can talk it over and decide what you want to do. Remember, sometimes time apart makes you miss the other person. Spending all your free time together can sometimes smother a relationship

[**Sapphire**]

WELCOME to ATLF! Glad that you joined us & decided to post you need for advice with our helpful, caring community. :hello:

I think everyone here has given you some good advice & things to think about & talk about with your girlfriend. I do agree with having a talk with her about how you have been feeling.

Also, try to look within yourself to see what things may be bothering you that you are feeling the way you are as well.

[Josh]

well
i want to break up but im scared to tell her :(
im feeling that my life is worthless..
i dont want to fight with her after breaking

im totally scared

[~Teej~]

Space apart from your relationship might do the trick...seeing each other everyday you might feel like you are in the mundane and things aren't exciting anymore...If you spend a few days apart it might help you see that you miss her and you want to be with her.

But you should talk to her also and see if she is happy in the relationship

Oh yeah and welcome to ATLF :)

[**Sapphire**]

I agree space sounds like it might be something that you 2 need for yourselves. Maybe with some time apart, you can really decided whether or not you want to break up with her.

[sweet26]

Hello
I wish that you can help me guys
me and my girlfriend are together more than 2.5 years!!
in the biggening everything was goood and we loved each other
but in the last month or two , i dont feel the love anymore i feel like
i need space the love gone!!!
and we dont talk like the way we used to talk to each other

we still together but i dont know if to break up or not to.
i dont know if this is a step that we have to live with or no

i need your help please that thing is driving me crazy

Josh

Well if you feel as though you dont love her anymore, or you need your space, then you need to tell her. Don't go through a relationship just because you think you have too. It just causes the pain and the heartache to be that much more intense and it can lead to awful things. When people become comfortable, things tend to change. In the beginning you both adored each other, you both had everything to talk about because everything was new, now its like everything is bland, and you dont know how to keep it going, thus it feels like the love is fading. You need to sit down with her if you truly care about her and find out whats going on and what happened. If you see yourself with this person for the rest of your life, or long term, which ever, then you owe it to yourself and to her to discuss it.
You might stay together or you might agree its not worth it. :) Good luck