View Full Version : friend to more than friend? how?!
aussiecoffee007
11-22-2006, 11:58 PM
i am sort of friends with this guy, but he doesnt seem to show much interest me as a relationship... i am crazy about him though. we dont talk that often and he doesnt know me that well, but when we do talk its amazing connection, but i dont see him a lot. but how do i get him to notice me as more than that? how do i take our friendship to that next level without scaring him away?
Mathieu
11-23-2006, 07:22 PM
Hey! the most important thing is to just get it out there and tell him. dont waste time be honest sooner rather than later. you dont want to look back and regret not even knowing. ;)
demonica75
11-24-2006, 09:17 AM
hi,
just tell him how it is, don't waist your time and only think that maybe he will feel the same about you, and maybe he will want to be your boyfriend. life is too short, tell him how you feel, but be ready that he might not feel the same way. but you never know, maybe he is afraid to tell you that he has feelings for you too.
Tuxie
11-28-2006, 09:33 AM
So you're concerned about scaring him away? Well, I'd recommend going slow then... if time and situation allows. I'd try to find a way to increase the time you see him though (since I don't know your sitch, I don't know if that's feasible or not). Just try to start by being a good friend. I'm a firm believer of relationships growing out of friendships. Tuxgal is my best friend. ;) We started out that way... just by chatting online.
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