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love/suicide
11-22-2006, 09:19 PM
Ok, I am brand new to this site and I really hope it will help me.

My boyfriend and I have an amazing relationship for the most part. We love each other very much. (or so I think) But there has been one issue. He talks to soooo many girl on msn. I mean, I have guy friends I talk to every now and then, but he talks to these girls all the time. One of them, he used to web cam with before we met. Now he still talks to her, and he still views her cam. She asks him to see his too but he makes excuses not to. When I asked him just to tell her he had a girlfriend, he wouldn't do it. She calls him babe, and other pet names like that and they talk a lot. He says they are just friends, but if that's true, why can't he tell her he has a girlfriend?

There is another one that he talks to, she doesn't live very far away. She's from his home town, not far at all from where we live now. They are the same way as the other girl. Only she worries me more because she is close and it's very possible for them to see each other. He goes home a lot without me....:confused:

I know it's ok for him to have female friends, that's fine with me. Maybe he just likes having someone to talk to. But why does he need to hide the fact that he's taken, and why does he hide what they talk about? Am I not enough for him? He says he loves me, but does he really?

imaginelove
11-22-2006, 10:20 PM
I have been in ur shoes, except I had two children with him...so I think that if you want to try it and make it work, ok...but in my experience, it wont work out....I was engaged and he still lied to me...he was with me and her at the same time...so I think it would be better for u and ur feelings to get out now! Instead of getting more hurt in the long run

missingidentity10730
11-22-2006, 10:41 PM
Get out of the freeway, u got to take the next exit if u know wat i mean!! i was in a relationship like dat n it wont take u anywhere but a dead end, tell him ur leaving, n if he really "loves" u he would stop doing wat he's doing now.... if u do decide to do this, u have to be certain u will, cuz if he notices that ur weak in ur decision, he'll keep doing it, u gots to be firm