Avluve
01-07-2008, 01:08 PM
Best lame title ever..
Anyways so we'll call this guy John.
John and I met on a forum. John and i IRC'd for a while, then took to talking on the phone. John has a girlfriend. John used to be a player until said girlfriend. John's a reasonably logical thinker, and when I say this I mean that in a discussion we had, he had actually admitted that his love wasn't his soul mate (in a discussion about soul mates obviously) and how you had to work at relationships to keep them going etc..
My problem is this. We talk on the phone, for hours... last night it was 4 hours, the night before it was 4 hours, once it was 6 hours. (this has been going on for months now) We talk about everything. He's confided in me about things I'm sure (can't say I KNOW because he could be lying? I try to be logical about the fact that I've never met him) so I'm sure he's never told her, and I've told him things I've never told anybody. We have talked everything from politics to sex. I find that I have developed stronger feelings for him. He's coming to visit me in a week, and he's staying for 2 weeks. We're going to a concert (that he's decided to pay for) and apparently we're going to be drunk, a lot.
Do guys spend 6 hours on the phone talking to girls they aren't attracted to? When he comes out here, should I make a move? Honestly I've developed such a good friendship with him and the fact that he is in a relationship, I don't want to ruin this if there's nothing on his end. I can't say that I'm in love, I've never met him, but I could fall hard.
Now here's the thing. He hasn't directly flirted with me at all on the phone, nor I him. At least, not that I know of. However he's very sarcastic (this would be one of those traits that are perfect for me), one of our things is making fun of each other and I guess in a childish way that could be considered flirting? I dunno, it's odd. I've never been this close to a guy I wasn't dating.
Anyways so we'll call this guy John.
John and I met on a forum. John and i IRC'd for a while, then took to talking on the phone. John has a girlfriend. John used to be a player until said girlfriend. John's a reasonably logical thinker, and when I say this I mean that in a discussion we had, he had actually admitted that his love wasn't his soul mate (in a discussion about soul mates obviously) and how you had to work at relationships to keep them going etc..
My problem is this. We talk on the phone, for hours... last night it was 4 hours, the night before it was 4 hours, once it was 6 hours. (this has been going on for months now) We talk about everything. He's confided in me about things I'm sure (can't say I KNOW because he could be lying? I try to be logical about the fact that I've never met him) so I'm sure he's never told her, and I've told him things I've never told anybody. We have talked everything from politics to sex. I find that I have developed stronger feelings for him. He's coming to visit me in a week, and he's staying for 2 weeks. We're going to a concert (that he's decided to pay for) and apparently we're going to be drunk, a lot.
Do guys spend 6 hours on the phone talking to girls they aren't attracted to? When he comes out here, should I make a move? Honestly I've developed such a good friendship with him and the fact that he is in a relationship, I don't want to ruin this if there's nothing on his end. I can't say that I'm in love, I've never met him, but I could fall hard.
Now here's the thing. He hasn't directly flirted with me at all on the phone, nor I him. At least, not that I know of. However he's very sarcastic (this would be one of those traits that are perfect for me), one of our things is making fun of each other and I guess in a childish way that could be considered flirting? I dunno, it's odd. I've never been this close to a guy I wasn't dating.