I am in love with him but...

[anna]

:confused: :( hello everyone.
I love one guy. he lives nextdoor to me. I love him so much. we flirt with each other every day, he comes over my house talks to me plays with me and he kissed me twice too! he said that he likes me but there is one problem. he has a girlfriend. he said to me that he really likes me and he likes the other girl. and i am really sad now. i cant forget him. even if i would try to forget him i cant cuz he is my next door neightboor. I dont know what to do. So please help me!
Can u give me some advice what should I do about him?

[chief86]

If you really love him...look at the relationship he's in with the other girl, and if she makes him happier than you know you can...just be friends with him, maybe a little later on he will be available and you will keep your friendship. If he seems to love you more than her, then tell him exactly how you feel and that he needs to decide who he wants to be with.

[aussiecoffee007]

yeah he definitely cant just jerk you around... he needs to choose which one of you he wants because he cant have both. and if you love him you need to tell him that, or else youll always be this sort of confused, sort of happy person! dont do that! you should be all happy!

[demonica75]

hi,
first of all, what do you mean by saying he plays with you and kisses you? is it sexual? if it is,he needs to stop and you need to stop in respect to the other girl. he is involved with somebody else, so you need to be more mature then he is and have a talk with him. if he wants to be with you , first he needs to break up with his girlfriend. it is not fair to her to be doing this behind her back. trust me please, i have a lot of experience, if his girlfriend finds out about you, it can create a lot of problems for you, for him and for her. no matter how much you love him, have some morals and respect for yourself and try to stay only friends with him, but from what i see in your situation, you have sexual feelings for him, so friendship can be rather difficult. i don't want to lecture you, but imagine yourself if your boyfriend, whom you loved so much, messed around with somebody else behind your back and you found out about this? the thing is, you know he has a girlfriend, the moment you found out about this, you should of stopped contact with him. i know you probably don't like my response, but i am being honest with you.


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