confused. does she like me?

[simbillus]

Okay ive been hangin out with this girl that ive been aquaintances with for a few years now, but we recently started to talk/text go to movies and go on starbucks runs, etc. even more recently (past week) we have had constant communication throughout the day and we will often go back to my place and sit in the basement (cuddle. her laying on me or whatever) and it will be the end of the night and we will hook up and whatnot and ill play with her hair while we watch movies or tv, hold hands in public. its just that we had a conversation a few weeks ago and she was telling me that she doesnt like commitment too much since an ex boyfriend completely devastated her. I want a way to show her what a great guy i am, and that commitment isnt anything to be afraid of.. she seems to want to keep her options open and im falling for her deeply. we have nicknames, inside jokes, we kiss, and its very intimately (nothing more than kissing and a little grab-***). Am i a moron being played or is she just taking it slowly and/or keepin the options open?

[Tuxgal]

Well, I'm no relationship expert by any means, but I think it seems like she is genuinely interested in you. She just seems afraid to commit because of her ex. You might want to tell her how you feel. Maybe not that your falling for her, but that you care deeply for her and would love to be more than friends with her, when she is ready for that sort of thing. At least she'll know how you feel about her. Good luck. :)