Two Partners At One Time

[lovebites]

It has become very common today that you find a guy going around with two girls or even a girl is having an affair with more than one guy. Why does this happen? What are the reasons due to which we tend to ditch our partner? Is it right that we carry on with two people at one time? I would like like to know your opinion guys

[Tuxgal]

Heh...let's try this again. I answered once but it messed up. No, it isn't right to do it. I don't know why people do. Though I've been...guilty of something like that before, I'd never recomend or advise it ever. I'm a one-man woman. I love only one guy (;) at Tuxguy) and want only him. Anyone else have any thoughts?

[demonica75]

in my opinion it is very wrong to carry a relationship with more then one person at a time. somebody usually ends up getting hurt. i believe that when somebody does that, they have very low self-confidence and they do it to make themselves feel better mentally.
unless you agree on an open relationship ( which i am totally against ), these doings usually get you in trouble.

[audreycsmith]

People born in the 50's, 60's, 70's, etc., were ready for a monogomous relationship by the time they started dating. Nowadays, most children (of dating age), are so busy trying to grow up too fast. They haven't experienced enough of their own childhood. They think that they have to be in a gang. They are still hanging around with a lot of their school friends which stands to reason why one would be in more than just a couple type of relationship. Then their is the gay thing nowadays. Women may have a woman or a couple of women under their belts. The same with men.

My youngest daughter is freaking like that. She has two women she hangs close with. They sleep with her when her man is gone. Sometimes the two women, and my daughter sleep together with her man in the bed as well. I don't want to say she is gay. She is just keeping up with the Jones'.

Pressure is a "b". That is why you see a lot of women tip out on their man, and a lot of man tip out on their woman.

[oyster]

My youngest daughter is freaking like that. She has two women she hangs close with. They sleep with her when her man is gone. Sometimes the two women, and my daughter sleep together with her man in the bed as well. I don't want to say she is gay. She is just keeping up with the Jones'.

I don't know how I would react to that if I had kids, I felt to the floor when I read it. :eek: jaw dropping.

like how do you survive reality like this?

[audreycsmith]

Being single, really gives you the right to have as many close friends to you and still have an on going relationship with a male or female, depending on your preference. You are not married, and until then, your fate to be with more than one person at a time is your right. Anyone monogamous, should be aware of this. This is 2006, and anything goes.

On the other hand, if you are married, you are suppose to be with only one person. But that, nowadays, is not even the case. People are so busy trying to keep up with the Jones'. Ah, you have a second girlfriend, I need to get mine too. That short of thing.

There are people that are married, yet dedicated fully to their jobs, and the people around them. They may even travel out of town together for business meetings. They have their meals, and drink with one another. The woman, or man, is not thinking about their home life, the wife, the children. He is having fun being single. Does that mean he is out of love? Some people do take it farther, and have a none night affair, or longer. They think that keeping it between them, that it doesn't go further, will make everything alright. But it doesn't. Now the woman or man has a secret, and they are wondering if love was really where it is suppose to be, between the woman or man and their mate. Sometimes, even when a person is in love, if they are not getting a full life out of their marriage, they will eventually depart from their love bed to another room in the house, or they will take on another person while still being married.

Sincerely,

Audrey C. Smith