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miniskirtmandi
10-23-2006, 03:58 PM
So my boyfriend of 8 months and i just broke up 3 weeks ago and i thought i was fine at first...but the last week i went down hill, im constantly crying and if something reminds me of him or us together, i cry. I havent been able to sleep in a while...i had talked to his brother because i am friends with his brother too, and in the background he was telling him to tell me about willies(my ex) new gf and willie was like bragging about it and asking if i was jealous...i was alot, but didnt show it...i was confused, he had told me he loved me and i replied when i was ready, we were together for a long time and he was the only guy ive ever felt comfortable around. I dont know what to do anymore, i miss him so much, please help and give me advice! im dying!

Tuxgal
11-12-2006, 11:18 PM
I have been where you are, trust me. My love and I just recently got back together again. But we were apart for two weeks and we were both miserable. I know it hurts, and it won't be quick or easy to move on, but you have to. You have to cut off contact with your ex. He's got a new gf and seems like he's just out to hurt you. You just have to get out there, do some new activities. Keeping busy is key. You'll think of him less and less until one day you pretty much don't think of him at all. Take care and good luck. We're here for you if you need to talk.

Tuxie
11-12-2006, 11:34 PM
So my boyfriend of 8 months and i just broke up 3 weeks ago and i thought i was fine at first...but the last week i went down hill, im constantly crying and if something reminds me of him or us together, i cry. I havent been able to sleep in a while...

Like tuxgal has already said, we've both been though this. So we understand, at least in part, of what you're feeling. It's tough, we know.

i had talked to his brother because i am friends with his brother too, and in the background he was telling him to tell me about willies(my ex) new gf and willie was like bragging about it and asking if i was jealous...i was alot, but didnt show it...

I don't like guys that do this. To me, he's sort of saying... "Look at me, look what I have, does it bother you?" Sorry... but this isn't right.

I dont know what to do anymore, i miss him so much, please help and give me advice! im dying!

I agree with tuxgal... you need to move on. It may not be what you want to hear, but you need to. I know it hurts... it hurts bad. But, as a support group, we are here for you... if you need us. Chin up.... :)