My friend flirts with my crush!

[aqua]

It's great to have good friends around — you can laugh with them, cry on their shoulder and depend on them in times of need. But no one is perfect and there are times when some of their habits can get a tad annoying, making you want to stay away. Though you might be tempted to be rude, it is important that you don't allow this to affect your friendship.
My friend always flirting with my crush, talking over me or overhearing, how do I help her break the habit to make my life easier?

[Gift Guide]

You have to talk to her about it. She might not even know she is doing it...possibly is just her personality. Or she might actually be trying to get your crush. Let her know your feelings on the situation and if she still flirts after your talk; it's time to find new friends.

Good Luck

[darkdreams]

Well, you have to tell your crush to stay far from your friend and make your friend see that her habits aer annoying you and that you dnt appreciate it. Dnt say that tell her that she is a threat to your relationship, this would be like putting ideas in the devil's mind, if you see what I mean....

[StuckOnBandaid]

I agree that you should talk to your friend about it, but I have another point of view for you.

My friends have accused me of flirting with their boyfriends (and even trying to steal them away!) on many occasions. I wouldn't know how to flirt if someone gave me a step-by-step book on it. I am very uncomfortable around most men, and when I know that one of my female friends are dating one of them, it's like this huge weight lifted off my shoulders so I feel like I can be myself. I just talk to them. I don't have to feel uncomfortable or awkward. I'm not attracted to them at all or want to date them, I just feel like a friend, and I'm not uncomfortable with my female friends.

[spunky]

I think you need to talk to your friend and express your feelings about this to her, maybe she doesnt even realize she is doing it, or maybe she does, but in either case she needs to know how you feel about this.

[WomenAreSelfish]

Does your friend know about your crush interest? If so, I'd break up being friends with that person. No true friend knowingly would flirt with someone you like.That's suppose to be offlimit crossing the line.

Good Luck!

[lisa843]

I agree...no true friend would ever do that.