Contacting someone from your past

[~Teej~]

Hi all..

I recently saw this guy in town who was my first crush :love:

I was coming out of the bank and I saw him talking to someone in there...I kicked myself afterwards for not speaking to him. :rant:

Anyway I decided to try and get in contact with him as I would like to see what he is up to these days ( plus he is still cute so thats a bonus )

I managed to track down his parents address and so I am planning on sending a letter to him addressed there.

The thing is I haven't spoken to him in about 10 years and don't have the faintest idea of what to say as I don't want to sound like a crazy person...I also don't know if he will have any idea who I am and It may make me sound like an idiot.

So what do you guys think I should do...Because I don't know :dontknow:

I would like to become their friend as I did see something special in them a long time ago and I think it would be nice to have them in my life.

Thanks all for replying

[lilcupid]

Well I'm a pretty honest lol and straight forward person so I myself would do a little confession on the 1st crush to start with, then just say I would love to catch up some time.

[daisychip]

Well for one Teej..............I don't see how anyone could not remember you :dontknow::dontknow: cutie as you are! ;) and two, there's nothing that you should be embarrassed about or feel crazy for in wanting to know how people are doing 'these' days.

Of course myself, I would "call" the parents and nose dive straight in there but thats me. Your letter would be nice for someone to receive after all this time and I'm sure you will get a positive response in return. People like to feel cared about and thats exactly what you would be giving. Go for it.........if nothing else, you've made their day!! Hope you will have a renewed friendship soon! :whoo:

[Tony]

I also agree with dasychip with that Teej :)
go for it :thumb:
a letter is a good start a phone call is just as good :)

[stoner]

Even better, wait for the moment when he gets out of his pad for a walk. While on the street, walk opposite his direction and when you two meet eye to eye, start with a "Oh hi! You're ________ right? I'm __________ by the way if you don't remember me ... we went to high school together. OMG it's been such a long time! So what made you decide to come back to these parts?" (well ... something along those lines) :D

If it clicks, then the rest is up to you. ;) Good luck sis. :)

[**Sapphire**]

I like that stoner, that's a good idea too.

I like daisy's idea, be straight forward, honest with him in your letter. I think a letter is a good idea first & then go from there when you get a response from him. Do you not think you won't see him in the bank again? Maybe he lives around in your area & you may run in to him again & can chat to him that way. If you don't think so, then the letter is the best idea.

Good luck girl! :thumb: You already know to keep us posted! :D

[~Teej~]

Yeah I will think about to write and will prolly do the letter while I am at work tomorrow...I still think he is in my area still and I am hopeful he will reply...I just have to wait and see I guess...

I will let you know, of course I will :)