Feeling for a girl HELP

[cyt_411]

hey guys i'm kinda new here but i have a few question to ask: There's this girl i like at work, everytime we work together i feel so happy. She and i we flirt a lot by touching or talking. All this flirting has grown into an attraction between us. I know she feels comfortable next to me and i feel the same for her too. One problem, she has a boyfriend. Just recently i've been having thoughts about this girl and feelings. I just feel so lonely and empty without her. I know I will never get her, so how do I stop this feeling? There are other girls but they don't compare to her. Please, I need help... This feeling is making me stay up at night. If you guys have ideals please post. Thank you

[aqua]

Though office is a great place to find mates but it affects your career if its one side loves. What you can do is try to interact less with her and I defiantly think that time will heal all wounds.

[Raquel]

Well if it is just a boyfriend that she is dating and they are not serious then I would not take myself out of the running for this girl. I think that as long as her and this boyfriend have no commitment to one another that you should try and lay back a little while still pursuing her. You might be surprised and she may just want to make sure that you are there if she leaves this other guy.

[joel]

First You should take time and try to find out whether she really loves you. Love and liking for one is not the same. Furthermore, many think twice before making any personal relationship in the place of work.

[lovebites]

Before thinking of anything, first you decide whether you love her or its just an attraction. Because there is a vast difference between love and attraction. If you seriously love her then go and tell her. If even she feels the same for you that means you both are perfect for each other. But if she says that she just flirted with you then she is not the right person for you. Try to be away from her.

[Tuxgal]

Well, maybe you could just try to go out meet and date other people while remaining her friend. Maybe you'll meet someone you like more or perhaps she will become available. Meanwhile, it could help take your mind off of her. Good luck. :)

[audreycsmith]

I know what you are going through. Remember though, that girl is not, not, not, married, so you still have a chance to get to know her better. I know you are feeling hurt right now, you will each time you go to work and see her. You should have gotten all of this out first with her before you got emotionally involved with her. She cheated though, you said she flirted back with you (in the sense you felt that she had feelings for you). She must not be happy in her relationship though because you said:

"She and i we flirt a lot by touching or talking. All this flirting has grown into an attraction between us. I know she feels comfortable next to me and i feel the same for her too. One problem, she has a boyfriend."

So, LB: you still have a chance at love with her. Talk to her and ask her how she feels about you. Even if she saids only as a friend, keep your smile on and your understanding. God works in mysterious ways. Good luck. You may get her and don't like what you ended up with. Just play it cool., ok