What the????

[lilcupid]

I met this guy who I got along with really well. After we met we talked on the phone for 7hrs!!First date we chatted for about 5 hrs. 2nd date we went out to dinner then hung out at his place. 3rd date we went out to dinner and the drive-in. He was pretty keen, always talking about future dates, meeting some of his friends etc. The last time I saw him he was really excited to see me. Said something about making his crappy day much better. Then all of a sudden a couple of days later I felt him pull away. And confronted him on it. His response? I don't have feelings for you.....what the f*#k?! He was the one getting all serious so quickly. How would all of you take it?? I am starting to actually feel like maybe there is something wrong with me! Other guys I have dated have been very keen at first then pulled away. I admit that in the past I probably showed I was too keen so this time round I play it a bit more cool, calm and collect. I just find it strange how someone can go from being super interested to
"I have no feelings for you"....maybe me joking about marriage lmao freaked him out?! I said I was joking....hmmmm:p

[arc]

Guess he is an emotional and unstable guy. I amnot really into the guys who talk too much or show his interest on me very quick.

[**Sapphire**]

Sorry to hear that cupid. I don't know, maybe he was playing a game with you. Maybe he realized that he could be getting to close to you emotionally & he pulled back because he can't handle being close to a woman. There can be a lot of things here.

If you still have any contact with him, ask him what that was all about, it might help clear things up for you.

I don't think it's you at all, it was him!

[lilcupid]

Thanks for replying guys. I have a feeling as well it was him. I'm starting to wonder if he was not over his ex who he spoke about a few times. I'm not going to stress about it. It's his loss:p

[**Sapphire**]

Good for you Cupid hun! You have a really good outlook, I like that. :thumb::)

[stoner]

Getting into relationships is about taking chances.

I've had my share of experiences where I really pursued girls that I was interested to be with from the beginning, and almost always got rejected after the very first date. Simultaneously, there were girls that I dated that went on for days, weeks, and even months before I would either develop feelings for, or gradually take a step back because the feelings just weren't there.

All I can say about your situation is fuhgeddaboudit. This guy ain't worth your troubles. He seems emotionally unstable and not ready to be in a relationship ... that's a guy you don't want to be with IMHO. I won't worry one bit if I were you, cos when one door closes, there'll be another one that will open up. :)

[hihihihi]

maybe the person ends up not interested in you, after talking for hours. This can happen...