How long to Wait?

[Bunny]

How long should you generally wait for a guy to call you after the first date if it went well and if they like you? How long is too long? Anything to keep in mind? Help!? I'm going insane... =P

[Lewski711]

Have you considered calling him? Sometimes guys get scared or nervous, too. "What if she didn't like me?" "What if she doesn't want to go out again?"

By taking the first step, you relieve him of some possible stress, and he knows that you are interested.

I know it can be hard to make the next move, but someone has to.

[lovely]

Yes,that is absolutely right.Some times guys get nervous.But,you can take first step.There is no rule that guys should take first step.Contact him go for shopping or restaurent.

[aqua]

They are no rules for dating and love. Do what ever you feel is right, be bold and take the initiative call him and find out how he felt about you. Actually you can call him as you reach home. Not required to wait for long time.

[Raquel]

I agree that there are no set rules. I also agree that maybe you should try giving him a call, maybe he thinks that he did something stupid on the date and you don't like him. I say give him a call and see how the call goes, try to set up another date if you really like him.

[Gift Guide]

I call in 2 days and that is what most of my friends do. But there is one who is a great guy but he alwasy waits too long to call. So take the advice of the other posters and give him and call to see whats up. It can't hurt.









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[darkdreams]

Instead of biting off your nails in worry, ring him up casually and just be natural you him. Dnt do as if you are calling to ask what he thinks about the date and all.