Hey all

[kaqi]

Hello all , nice to meet you .

I am new here .So happy to be a member here.

My BF moved to another city.

I am afraid we will break up as this reason.

What can i do ?

[stoner]

Hello and welcome to the ATLF. Glad to see you join us in this friendly and caring community in cyberspace :hello:

First of all, it is not necessary to post the same thread twice in two different sections. :) But what do I know? I'm just a member here just like you. :D

On a serious note, I'm sorry that your boyfriend's departure is making you feel uneasy and insecure. As of this writing, how much of a distance is between you two since his move? Don't lose hope though ... if you two really care, and trust about each other, love will find a way.

In the meantime, keep all lines of communication open, and always be honest about your feelings towards him. Hopefully, there will be no room for any fights or misunderstandings as that in itself, will turn into a red flag that could ruin things (if you know what I mean). Ever considered following him to where he moved to? Sure it might feel weird living in a new place, but eventually you'll get used to it, and even appreciate your immediate surroundings. Most of all, the comfort of having your significant other close by, should be peace of mind in itself.

Good luck.

[Tony]

welcome to the ATLF kaqi
I am pleased that you have joined us and with posting

[~Teej~]

Yes welcome to ATLF, hope to see you around and posting soon :)

[~Teej~]

Aww I am sorry too hear this and I know that things will be hard for you..

Try your best to keep in contact as much as possible. Even if it is just emails and instant messenging. Even letters are still good these days. You can include photos etc and it's rather nice to recieve.

How often do you think you will see him..Is he close enough so you can go and visit him on the weekends..?..

I hope some f this helps make you feel a little better.

[**Sapphire**]

Welcome to ATLF! Glad that you joined us & posted! :)

I'm sorry that you are feeling like your relationship with your boyfriend may be over because of distance.

Have you talked with him about it?

If you haven't, I would have a serious talk with him about it. Maybe you 2 can make a go of a long distance relationship. There is so many ways that you 2 could communicate theses days, the internet can be very helpful in long distance relationships.

[Pink]

Hello and welcome to ATLF! Enjoy your stay! http://i232.photobucket.com/albums/ee240/amberd47/heartshape1.gif

[daisychip]

Hi kaqi! :hello: Glad you're here!!

I'd like to say for one thing............try not to carry a negative attitude about him moving. It really is true that if you think the worst it will probably happen. Be very open about how you're feeling and try to get some clarification about how your bf feels too. He may be just as worried or he may be able to ease your fears some.

Long distance doesn't HAVE to be a bad thing but if you are not trusting you may doom it before it happens.

Look forward to meeting you! :D

[Barmielad]

I guess we can never (happily) force anyone to stay with us. When a person begins to show that he or she is losing interest, it is probably already too late to change things. Might be better to accept it and seek another soulmate.

[aussiecoffee007]

hello and welcome kaqi hope to see you around soon!