someone246
09-13-2006, 02:57 AM
Hi i was asked by a friend of mine to look at this conversation and give me their opinion on it. I'd like some help.... the two in the conversation are just friends and one of them seems like their trying to give them advice. did they go too far?
him: whats been bothering you?
her: well my ex came back from italy
her: an hes been coming over every day
her: an i told him he cant cause i have a boy friend
her: but my boyfriend has been canceling our plans every day this week
her: and my ex boyfriend calls to see what im doing.....
her: ...from my driveway
him: yea you told me he was back from italy
him: i thought he might show up at your house
him: so are you breaking up with your boyfriend?
her: i let him come in and have grinders with th e kids last nihgt
her: no
her: not at all
him: hm why has your boyfriend been cancelling plans with you?
her: he always does hes very finiky
him: hmm alot of old feelings must be stirring up in you
him: with your ex boyfriend
him: if you're spending time with him
her: well just sad
her: brrb
him: you guys didn't hook up last night? that why you're drinking now?
her: oh no
him: well im sure you wouldnt tell me anyways but if you have and you plan on sticking with your boyfriend i'd tell him to stay away or things are gonna get really messy...
him: cause you know he doesnt just come over just to hang out...
her: what ever
him: he still considers you his girlfriend, eventually he'll ruin your relationship with your boyfriend... he'll probably show up while your boyfriend is there
him: just a matter of time
him: whats whatever supposed to mean?
him: you know im speakin the truth
her: you know i have plenty of guy friends who arent pigs
him: ya right, how do you know that? take the wool from your eyes and _see_. any guy is going to act like such a gentlemen you're going to think wow he really likes me for ME.... but you know what. that's _exactly_ what they want you to think
him: so you're telling me your ex just wants to be friends?
him: he comes over to hang out as friends?
him: that's complete bs
her: tells me a lot about you...so are you finished insulting my friends or what
him: im sure you have real friends but some of them have other intentions... i bet you. and your ex STILL thinks you're his girlfriend
him: it isn't over yet for him.. this is news to you?
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him: no you're not changing the subject. i wanna know if you REALLY think that your ex comes over as a friend?
her: you know what ...you think what ever you want it dosent matter what i say cause you alread implied that i was lting
him: ugh you're avoiding my question
him: i never said i thought you hooked up with him
her: no im not...my ex can think whatever he wants as long as he accepts the fact and stays within his boundaries he can stay my friend
him: but he hasn't accepted anything
her: how do you know
her: you werent here
him: uigh girls are so stupid. he's waiting for you
him: he'll wait and as along as you're taking his phone calls everyday and letting him come over everyday he thinks the door is still open for him to get back together with you
her: thats his problem
him: in his mind he's still your gf and his feelings arnt going to go away, he'll do whatever he can to break you and your boyfriend up.. i don't see how you don't see this
him: i gaurantee you one of these days he'll show up at your house with your boyfriend there and start a big scene
him: soon as he gets back to your state the first thing he wants to is see you.... his mindset is still int he past.. that's so obvious you should know that
her: you dont get it ...thats his poblem not mine
him: alright i dont know why im typing all of this. you've already decided to keep your ex close so you'll have him when you break up with your boyfriend
her: dude i dont remember asking for a councilor
him: ya but having a guy hang around so much that was your bf and knowing he still thinks youre his girlfriend is a messed up thing to do to to your boyfriend
him: you spend more time with your ex than you do your boyfriend jeez
her: your just making stuff up
him: you need to make up your mind
him: which one you want
her: wtf
her: i dont need to do anything
him: you can't have both
her: i never implied i had both
him: having more than one bf is always gonna come out a disaster.. arnt you a little too old for that
her: dude who are you talking to
him: i thought you were different i guess
him: im just suprised
her: i didnt even tell you anything you just baraged me with all this crap and its so rude
him: i think you're confused. you sound like you're not sure which one you want. i hope you do the right thing.
her: there you go making **** up.....whatever makes you think im confused came from the little man in your left ear
him: but if you're not being monogamous with your boyfriend and he thinks you are then i'd break up with him.. it just isn't right... that's how STD's spread. you have unprotected sex and just use birth control. your partner sleeps with other people and they dont know about it. the next thing they know they've contracted some kinda std
her: wtf!!!!!!!!!!!! first of all that **** is so rude and second of all that was never even brought up.
him: if i was seeing a girl for a year and her ex came along and she was seeing him. I'D wanna know about it. she'd have to make a decision. because thats the right thing to do.....
her: there are no decisions to make....you dont get it
her: and its really rude of you to intrude like that especially about sex comments that you know nothing about
him: ive known a few people where they were seeing someone for along time, then their ex contacted them and they eventually broke up with him to be with her ex..... but all along they were sleeping together.... i just feel so bad for those guys when that happens to them
her: well thats their problem and their lives
him: not the fact they they went to be with their ex, but for the fact that
him: they didnt SAY anything to their current bf
him: the guy has to go get checked out for std's just to make sure
her: i am not married and my privacy is my privacy
him: it's just not right
her: you dudes alwayys thing some gf is a piece of property
him: omfg
him: when it comes to sex and you both swear you will be monogamous and the other ended up breaking that promise and didnt say anything about it
him: that has nothing to do with being their property
him: it has to do with their health and their life
her: so what...that has nothing to do with me
him: k so i guess you figure its ok to have sex with other people and having your bf think you are not. but you think it's ok to do that because you arnt married
him: whatever
him: thats so sinister
him: any guy or respectable girl would agree with me 100% whether they are married or not
her: where do you come up with this ****
her: i never said a word about sex
him: because its what you are saying!
her: you are such an assholed
her: um no
her: i never said one word about sex
her: i simply said you were rude to even briung it up\
her: all your crap is all about assumptions and it saays a lot about what your stupid assumptions are all about and its pretty sleezy
him: k where do you think these assumptions are coming from?
her: your fat head
her: cause i didnt tell you anything about my life except my ex has stopped by the last few days and i let him eat grinders with my kids last night....and you came out with all this std monogamous ****
him: yep woman need to tell their bf's when they've cheated, there so much of that goin on, its a big part of how std's spread... all i was saying was IF you were cheating then do the right thing! there's so many girls in this world that don't do that.. thats why so many guys feel insecure. they've had it done to them before
her: ah an then you try to say 'i thought you were different' wtf......your a fuckin tard
him: i thought you had more sense is what i ment
him: you said it yourself. you're not married, you can do whatever you want. do whatever you want to your boyfriend. i don't care it just suprises me cause i thought you were better than that...
her: there you go making ur stupid assumptions again
him: nah you arnt stupid. you know whats goin on. thats why you're stressed out and drinking
him: and you think im an ******* for telling it to you
him: but you know im right and that pises you off
her: white chocolate lique isnt exactly drinking....and im always stessed its my life
her: my mortgage jujsat went up 600 a month
her: no i think you are rude..and i get ****** when you make up stories
him: anyone would assume these things
him: your situation is so typical you dont even realize it
him: whats been bothering you?
her: well my ex came back from italy
her: an hes been coming over every day
her: an i told him he cant cause i have a boy friend
her: but my boyfriend has been canceling our plans every day this week
her: and my ex boyfriend calls to see what im doing.....
her: ...from my driveway
him: yea you told me he was back from italy
him: i thought he might show up at your house
him: so are you breaking up with your boyfriend?
her: i let him come in and have grinders with th e kids last nihgt
her: no
her: not at all
him: hm why has your boyfriend been cancelling plans with you?
her: he always does hes very finiky
him: hmm alot of old feelings must be stirring up in you
him: with your ex boyfriend
him: if you're spending time with him
her: well just sad
her: brrb
him: you guys didn't hook up last night? that why you're drinking now?
her: oh no
him: well im sure you wouldnt tell me anyways but if you have and you plan on sticking with your boyfriend i'd tell him to stay away or things are gonna get really messy...
him: cause you know he doesnt just come over just to hang out...
her: what ever
him: he still considers you his girlfriend, eventually he'll ruin your relationship with your boyfriend... he'll probably show up while your boyfriend is there
him: just a matter of time
him: whats whatever supposed to mean?
him: you know im speakin the truth
her: you know i have plenty of guy friends who arent pigs
him: ya right, how do you know that? take the wool from your eyes and _see_. any guy is going to act like such a gentlemen you're going to think wow he really likes me for ME.... but you know what. that's _exactly_ what they want you to think
him: so you're telling me your ex just wants to be friends?
him: he comes over to hang out as friends?
him: that's complete bs
her: tells me a lot about you...so are you finished insulting my friends or what
him: im sure you have real friends but some of them have other intentions... i bet you. and your ex STILL thinks you're his girlfriend
him: it isn't over yet for him.. this is news to you?
** personal information stripped **
him: no you're not changing the subject. i wanna know if you REALLY think that your ex comes over as a friend?
her: you know what ...you think what ever you want it dosent matter what i say cause you alread implied that i was lting
him: ugh you're avoiding my question
him: i never said i thought you hooked up with him
her: no im not...my ex can think whatever he wants as long as he accepts the fact and stays within his boundaries he can stay my friend
him: but he hasn't accepted anything
her: how do you know
her: you werent here
him: uigh girls are so stupid. he's waiting for you
him: he'll wait and as along as you're taking his phone calls everyday and letting him come over everyday he thinks the door is still open for him to get back together with you
her: thats his problem
him: in his mind he's still your gf and his feelings arnt going to go away, he'll do whatever he can to break you and your boyfriend up.. i don't see how you don't see this
him: i gaurantee you one of these days he'll show up at your house with your boyfriend there and start a big scene
him: soon as he gets back to your state the first thing he wants to is see you.... his mindset is still int he past.. that's so obvious you should know that
her: you dont get it ...thats his poblem not mine
him: alright i dont know why im typing all of this. you've already decided to keep your ex close so you'll have him when you break up with your boyfriend
her: dude i dont remember asking for a councilor
him: ya but having a guy hang around so much that was your bf and knowing he still thinks youre his girlfriend is a messed up thing to do to to your boyfriend
him: you spend more time with your ex than you do your boyfriend jeez
her: your just making stuff up
him: you need to make up your mind
him: which one you want
her: wtf
her: i dont need to do anything
him: you can't have both
her: i never implied i had both
him: having more than one bf is always gonna come out a disaster.. arnt you a little too old for that
her: dude who are you talking to
him: i thought you were different i guess
him: im just suprised
her: i didnt even tell you anything you just baraged me with all this crap and its so rude
him: i think you're confused. you sound like you're not sure which one you want. i hope you do the right thing.
her: there you go making **** up.....whatever makes you think im confused came from the little man in your left ear
him: but if you're not being monogamous with your boyfriend and he thinks you are then i'd break up with him.. it just isn't right... that's how STD's spread. you have unprotected sex and just use birth control. your partner sleeps with other people and they dont know about it. the next thing they know they've contracted some kinda std
her: wtf!!!!!!!!!!!! first of all that **** is so rude and second of all that was never even brought up.
him: if i was seeing a girl for a year and her ex came along and she was seeing him. I'D wanna know about it. she'd have to make a decision. because thats the right thing to do.....
her: there are no decisions to make....you dont get it
her: and its really rude of you to intrude like that especially about sex comments that you know nothing about
him: ive known a few people where they were seeing someone for along time, then their ex contacted them and they eventually broke up with him to be with her ex..... but all along they were sleeping together.... i just feel so bad for those guys when that happens to them
her: well thats their problem and their lives
him: not the fact they they went to be with their ex, but for the fact that
him: they didnt SAY anything to their current bf
him: the guy has to go get checked out for std's just to make sure
her: i am not married and my privacy is my privacy
him: it's just not right
her: you dudes alwayys thing some gf is a piece of property
him: omfg
him: when it comes to sex and you both swear you will be monogamous and the other ended up breaking that promise and didnt say anything about it
him: that has nothing to do with being their property
him: it has to do with their health and their life
her: so what...that has nothing to do with me
him: k so i guess you figure its ok to have sex with other people and having your bf think you are not. but you think it's ok to do that because you arnt married
him: whatever
him: thats so sinister
him: any guy or respectable girl would agree with me 100% whether they are married or not
her: where do you come up with this ****
her: i never said a word about sex
him: because its what you are saying!
her: you are such an assholed
her: um no
her: i never said one word about sex
her: i simply said you were rude to even briung it up\
her: all your crap is all about assumptions and it saays a lot about what your stupid assumptions are all about and its pretty sleezy
him: k where do you think these assumptions are coming from?
her: your fat head
her: cause i didnt tell you anything about my life except my ex has stopped by the last few days and i let him eat grinders with my kids last night....and you came out with all this std monogamous ****
him: yep woman need to tell their bf's when they've cheated, there so much of that goin on, its a big part of how std's spread... all i was saying was IF you were cheating then do the right thing! there's so many girls in this world that don't do that.. thats why so many guys feel insecure. they've had it done to them before
her: ah an then you try to say 'i thought you were different' wtf......your a fuckin tard
him: i thought you had more sense is what i ment
him: you said it yourself. you're not married, you can do whatever you want. do whatever you want to your boyfriend. i don't care it just suprises me cause i thought you were better than that...
her: there you go making ur stupid assumptions again
him: nah you arnt stupid. you know whats goin on. thats why you're stressed out and drinking
him: and you think im an ******* for telling it to you
him: but you know im right and that pises you off
her: white chocolate lique isnt exactly drinking....and im always stessed its my life
her: my mortgage jujsat went up 600 a month
her: no i think you are rude..and i get ****** when you make up stories
him: anyone would assume these things
him: your situation is so typical you dont even realize it