Did I mess things up?

[akajenfer]

My guy and I have known each other and been more than friends for over 6 months. About 3 weeks ago we actually decided to try a real relationship. We've been through a lot together (family stuff). We've also had a couple of big fights where we should have hated each other, but just couldn't. Once the air cleared we actually wound up closer each time. Both of these occured before we actually decided to be together. We are both completely happy. That is what actually got us together, the fact that we make each other happy and we feel good when we are around each other. Being that this is basically six months in the making, I have developed feelings for him.I love him, and I made the mistake of saying it. I was trying to jokingly do it to ease the tension, but that didn't work and I had to blurt it out after some confusion, and his response "It's too soon for me". I can understand that, everyone is different, but did I screw up...are we doomed?

[jessy]

If the relationship has already withstood so much drama, I wouldn't say you are doomed. I wouldn't mention it again and just see where things take you. Enjoy the ride, stressing it won't help you.

[aqua]

After going so far in a relationship that you thought of being like a real couple. If he is still asking you time its obvious that you’re being doomed. Don’t drag on things unless he make things clear to you.

[sassybritches72]

I would just go on as usual, I wouldnt say it again, and just see where the relationship goes, if you have been able to pull thru so much together and still be this close then I dont think that saying I love you should ruin what you have, just dont push it and let him make the next move.