help im in a love pickle

[mikezcarz]

sorry but this is a long one but i need to get it off my chest and see what people think is going on
right ive recently got back together with my childhood sweetheart even though im only 20
and i say back together but she always changes the subject when i ask her but weve been seeing each other for about a month and at first things went well we were seeing each other every other nite and in the first week we slept together but as soon as we did things changed she hardly gets hold of me any more doesnt answer my calls i went round their about a week ago cuz i was worried about her and she told me that shes going through rough times its the annerversary of her mates death phone companys are clawing at her for money which she doesnt have shes in debt by about £5000 for her car
but all i want is to be their for her she tells me she just wants some space but im not so sure shes telling me everything
she says she loves me to death but doesnt really show it
im the indoors type who just likes to have quit nites most of the time... she likes to party
but i just want to be with her you know its true love when you cant get a person out of your head for a minute
as i said she says she feels the same but i hardly ever hear from her i dont know what to do i cant stand it anymore she wont let me in her life at all at the moment
shes got time for all of her friends but not me even though she says she loves me
i cant stand being away form her but if i know things will get back to normal eventually i will
i sent her some flowers tonight and some chocolates with a nice card just to say i love her
but i havnt heard from her yet
i love her and i cant see that she loves me when she doesnt get hold of me return my txts or answer my calls
anyway whats your opinions on this i really need some help

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[fromtha305]

this girl and i have been going through similar things... she told me everything that's going wrong and she tells me no one can take my place and yet i still feel like i'm slowly becoming unimportant to her... i'm sorry i don't have any advice for you but you said she "needs her space" that's exactly what this girl said to me and i figured i should give it to her and let her come around when she feels like it's the right time... and it's uncanny how i'm an indoors type and this girl is also a party girl... well if i can't quite help you just know that there's another guy just like you in the same struggle - me

[COLMCGIN]

I know this is sadi a lot but if it ismeant to be it will happen. If she really loves you she will come around. My suggesstion is to give her space. Maybe contact her once a week...Drop her and email or send a sweet card telling her you are there for her and if she needs anything to call. Reiterate how much you love her but let her breathe. She may just need time to straighten out her own life...Is she 20 also??? If so that is pretty young and sometimes it is easy for girls to be confused baout their life path at that age. She will also most likely grow out of the whole "party" thing...I know I did. Hang in there and if it is meant to be it will work but don't be to pushy....:)