What If They Don't Drive?

[seoboost]

What would you do in this sort of a situation, you really like someone that you have met a few times and you really enjoy their company. They live in a city and they don't drive nor do they have a car. Instead they are used to taking taxis or buses, and taking trains to places or even walking. That you are not used to at all. The man asks you out to a place and you'd really like to see him again, he's a great listener, a real nice person, and you really do care about him. But you know he doesn't have a way to pick you up and you do not know how to find where he lives. You do not like to drive in the city and yet you want to find a way to see him again. He wants to take you out too, but he does not have a way to get you. So what do you do?

[Lewski711]

Couple things you have to deal with. First, why isn't he driving? In some places that's a big red flag: something's wrong. Other places, like huge cities, it's not a big deal. If he's not driving for unusual reasons (license revoked, no job to afford car, can't get insurance), maybe you need to find someone else.

If it's not a big deal, have you thougt about meeting him someplace? Do that for a bit and see if you want this relationship to grow. If not, stop meeting. If so, start probing. Ask where he lives. See what's going on with that. If everything checks out with this guy and you really like him, what's to say you don't pick him up on the dates? I know, tradition tells us that men do the picking up, but there are no real rules in relatinships.

Good luck.

[darkdreams]

Well, I think this is something that can be arranged... I mean, so long you like the person and vice versa, things can be sorted out, compromises can be made. You can try picking him up somewhere not exactly in the heart of the city and let him drive around the city in your car if you have one. That's not a big deal...