Lying about their financial situation

[seoboost]

What do you do if the person you are dating and have been with for quite some time and had told you that they were working full time and had a good income, and then you find out that they were only doing volunteer work and they do not have a good income at all. Instead they inherited all their money and were charging the dates that you two went out on. So now you find out they have a big charge card debt and no income? Would you stick with them, or would you dump them?

[like2play]

I would have to say that is wrong all the way around, I would certainly have to question why they werent just honest to begin with and I would definitely walk away from that relationship without looking back.

[emdar]

This sounds like there is little hope of an honest future with good open communication. I think I would have to say my good byes here and move on, especially if the inheritance is not being used to pay debt and it is mounting and out of control. It is one thing if he is working full time as a volunteer and his money works for him and provides a good income. It is another thing if he is a deadbeat.