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oldsw31
08-20-2007, 05:15 PM
I recently just broke up with my girlfriend, the reason being was that she felt that I always needed to be reassured of how the relationship was going. I would call her at some point in the day to say hello or whatever otherwise called her too much. Now with this relationship still new. At some point I was just talking to her friend online, and I was telling her how I went over her house and I hadn't seen her in like a week, and barely talked to her either. She mentioned to me that she probably in one of her moods, and needs some space. I replied I hope so.. It seemed like we were putting added pressures on the relationship. I would like to see what I should do. I think overall we both enjoyed hanging out and stuff and have the same interest.

how long should I wait to call her???
Do you think there is a chance of reconnecting this relationship???


I would appreciate any advice
**Sapphire**
08-20-2007, 05:34 PM
Welcome to ATLF!! Glad that you joined & posted as well! :)


Do you think that your ex was very serious about breaking-up? OR Did she say anything about possibly taking a break for a bit? How long ago has itbeen since the break-up?
oldsw31
08-20-2007, 05:56 PM
At this point in time it did seem serious, She just wasn't sure if it was me and how I am or just like this at this point in time. she did say she still wanted to hang out and do stuff and that she would call me. I admit I probably was a bit clingy always wanting to talk to her. Lately she has been under allot of stress, She recently was just Laid off like 2-3 weeks ago, she was just bummed out.. I want to help her out by trying to get her mind off the job situation. Now that she wasn't working I would end up calling her on my way home from work to see how she was doing ect ect and possible make plans to do something just to ease her mind. At that point it seemed like I was kinda getting the cold shoulder from her so I wasn't sure if it was me or just one of her moods. She in a few weeks is starting a training course for a career in the dental field.

It has only been about a week since last seen her