How long should I endure?

[encoder]

Even though I love my last girlfriend very much, we are now separated and are just friends. I'm still hoping that someday we will become lovers again. Though it seems blur already that we will ever back as we were before, I don't close the idea that we might again have a chance to be together again.

But how long should I wait? When should I say to myself, "you should go on and my another girl?"

[typingdancingqueen]

That is sad and it is hard to go through a break up in a dating relationship. One misses the other partner/friend very much. One misses hearing their voice and doing things with them. One misses talking to them and laughing with them and sharing special moments together. One does not like to go places on their own and wishes that you had someone to date to again go places with. One is sad as most the time the other partner is already dating someone else, or even sometimes marrys someone else and you are stuck alone again. Love songs can even be hard to listen to.

To answer your question as how long should you wait for the person to come back to you, once they are gone it has been my experience that they are gone for good. If they even talk to you on the phone or even want to still be friends, or even if they do come back, it won't be the same again as it was before. Better that they leave you before you are married to them or live with them. So do not wait one more day. She is gone and you just have to somehow cope with it! It is very hard believe me I know how hard. But there are other fish in the sea, and the same thing is true for men losing girls! Start getting out again and just have some fun on your own, go do things that you didn't have time or money before since perhaps before you went with her and had to please her all the time and had to spend money taking her out all the time, which sure adds up. Save your money and gain more insight into dating and relationships so that perhaps the next few relationships will last longer. Learn more what you are looking for in a person that you will one day keep forever.

[seoboost]

Even though I love my last girlfriend very much, we are now separated and are just friends. I'm still hoping that someday we will become lovers again. Though it seems blur already that we will ever back as we were before, I don't close the idea that we might again have a chance to be together again.

But how long should I wait? When should I say to myself, "you should go on and my another girl?"

You are going through something that is very normal and just a part of growing up and learning about dating. Just use this experience as sort of a tool or stepping stone to find the right true love, as there is someone out there for you and don't even try to look for her. It's better when one doesn't try to look for someone, it's better when you are just no longer trying to find someone and not even looking. Just all a sudden you go some place you'd normally go anyways, and someone really attractive is there and appealing to you. You speak. You exchange a few words. Then you go back there again and you become friends. They even like you. Imagine that!

[ITry]

ENCODER - I have had this same experience and my bf and I broke up and 6 months later we got back together. In the beginning I thought we would never be back together no matter how much I wanted it, just cause of all the things that happened....time went on, I didn't hold my breath, I saw other people, and our reunion was not a planned one, it just sort of happened, and we are still together.

So....every relationship is different but I say if you really love this person and want to be back w/ them do what you can to try and make this happen, and if she doesn't respond sit back and move on w/ your life, at least you know you've done all you could to try and recreate it...right?!? It's closure!

When one door closes, another opens (my mom always told me this..haha)

[StuckOnBandaid]

I completely agree with when one door closes another one opens. If you guys are meant to be together, it will happen.

In the past, I've gone through this too. Anyone who has been in love has. I was heartbroken for a really long time and thought I'd never get over it, but I eventually did. I now see that he was not the one I was meant for, and that's why things happened the way they did. He was my first love, and will always have a special place in my heart, but he was not who I was meant to be with.